The ins and outs of making a baby

The most important part of the baby-making journey is to determine when exactly(ish), ovulation occurs during the monthly menstrual cycle. Modern reproductive science has a lot of fancy ways of pinpointing ovulation’s big moment and coming up with general guidelines around the timing. But the truth is, ovulation is a very unique and individual experience for each woman. Ovulation – like our moods – can vary wildly, not just from woman to woman, but from month to month.
How to predict ovulation:
To learn more about your personal ovulation patterns, an ovulation predictor kit is a good start, but both Western and Chinese medicine also take into account more subtle signs such as cervical mucus (which thickens to an egg white consistency and becomes more noticeable around the time of ovulation). One of the first things I recommend for my fertility patients is that they take their basal body temperature every single day with a special thermometer that’s calibrated to notice subtle temperature swings. (You can download a BBT chart from my clinic, Acupuncture Kitchen. You can get a BBT thermometer here too, or at any drugstore)
Taking it one step further, you can get an ultrasound through a fertility clinic (if you’re actively pursuing that route) or your OBGYN. This will confirm, with little doubt, the timing of your ovulation.
I recommend trying a combination of all these methods to see how they add up.
What science says:
In the 2004 article “Mucus observations in the fertile window: a better predictor of conception than timing of intercourse” by Bigelow JL et al., researchers found that “Intercourse results in a pregnancy essentially only if it occurs during the 6-day fertile interval ending on the day of ovulation.” Cervical mucus observation is cited as one of the most accurate ways to predict this 6-day fertile window. The summary of this European study states that: “To maximize the likelihood of conception, intercourse should occur on days with optimal mucus quality, as observed in vaginal discharge, regardless of the exact timing relative to ovulation.” Read full Study
Basically, science says, listening to your body is the way to go!
Timing intercourse:
As always, make love when it feels right for you. If you happen to feel inclined to shoot for optimal fertility times, these are some general guidelines.
- while cervical mucus resembles an egg white consistency
- the day or two between when your temperature dips and spikes on your BBT chart
- the 2 days following the surge on your ovulation predictor kit
- 24-48 hours after an HcG injection
Pinpointing ovulation is just the first step in timing sexual intercourse. Because the path from sex to actual fertilization doesn’t happen in an instant, the truth is, fertilization occurs in a window around ovulation, and implantation 7-10 days after that, not just in a moment. This concept can take the pressure off timing your sexual acts around this elusive scientific moment. Give yourself permission to have fun, be spontaneous, and keep the romance alive.